Minggu, 30 September 2012

How To Be Yourself

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How to Be Yourself


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Be Yourself
Be yourself is a sentence that is quite possibly the most commonly used phrase in the history of advice: Be yourself. It's such a vague adage. What do they really mean when they tell you to be yourself? And is it really as easy as it sounds?

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  1. 1
    Find yourself and define yourself on your terms. Oscar Wilde once said with his usual wit: Be yourself; everyone else is already taken. As humorous as this might seem, it's a basic summation of the truth. Yet, you can't be yourself if you don't know, understand, andaccept yourself first. It should be your primary goal to find this out. Find the time to dwell upon what you value and take time to consider what makes up the essence of who you are. As part of this, contemplate your life and choices. Try to think about what kinds of things you would or wouldn't like to do, and act accordingly; finding out through trial and error helps more than you might think it does. You can even take personality tests, but be careful to only take what you want from them so that you do not let such tests define you. Instead, ensure that the defining you do is based on your own terms and is something you feel absolutely comfortable with. You may feel self-conscious, but over time if you are around the right type of people for you, they will accept you for who you are.And love and start to look at the real you.

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  3. 3
    In finding your values, don't be surprised if some of them seem to conflict.
     In finding your values, don't be surprised if some of them seem to conflict.
    In finding your values, don't be surprised if some of them seem to conflict.
     In finding your values, don't be surprised if some of them seem to conflict.
    #*In finding your values, don't be surprised if some of them seem to conflict. This is a natural result of taking on broad values from a variety of sources, including culture, religion, mentors, inspiring people, educational sources, etc. What does matter is that you continue working through these conflicts to resolve what values feel most true to yourself.
  4. 4
    Avoid fixating on the past and not letting yourself grow.
     Avoid fixating on the past and not letting yourself grow.
    Avoid fixating on the past and not letting yourself grow. One of the most unhealthy approaches to being oneself is to make a decision that who you are is defined by a moment or period of time, after which you spend the rest of your life trying to still be that person from the past rather than someone who is still you but grows with the passing of each season and decade. Allow yourself this space to grow, to improve, to become wiser. And allow yourself to forgive past errors and past behaviors you're not so proud of. Work on accepting mistakes and choices you've made; they're done and in the past. You had your reasons for them and the decision made sense at the time, so instead of harnessing yourself to past mistakes, allow yourself to learn their lessons and continue to grow.



    what other people say? As Eleanor Roosevelt said once, "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent" and what matters most is that you listen to your own inner confidence and if it's missing, that you start developing it!

    • Does this mean no one's opinion in life matters? No. It hurts if you're socially rejected. If you're forced into a situation where you must spend most or all of your time among people who can't stand you for reasons of their own, it's dangerous to internalize their negative ideas of who you are. What you can do is exercise some choice in whose opinions you value more than others. It's much healthier to pay attention to people who genuinely mean you well and who agree with you about what you want to do with your life.
    • Be careful though, an individual can mean you well, but it may be only on their own terms. This could steer you down the wrong path, and with all the passion of true consideration for your well being.
    • Don't trivialize it if you face negative social pressure or bullying. It's easier to withstand it if you are aware of it as pressure and build healthy defenses. Building up a circle of trusted friends and people who share your views and beliefs in life is a good way to help reduce the impact of hostile people. You can tell yourself their opinions don't matter, and they shouldn't, but that's a lot easier when there are others who agree with you and stand by you. If you are alone that is fine, just think about how the people in your life who care about you. Then compare them to whoever the bully is; suddenly you can realize that their opinion of you, your family or your lifestyle, is worthless. We inherently care about the opinions of those we respect and look up to. This works both ways; if someone has no respect for you, then what they say about you is just empty words coming from someone who is one step above being a total stranger.
    • Learn the difference between intimidating, sarcastic, conniving, or thoughtless comments from others and constructive criticism which is well intended. It will focus on real faults that you don't know about, and could do with remedying. In the latter case, people such as parents, mentors, teachers, coaches, etc., might well be telling you things that you need to digest and mull over at your own pace, to make self-improvements for the better. The difference is that their critique of you is intended to be helpful. They care about you and are interested in how you grow as a person, and are respectful. Learn how to spot the difference and you will live well, dismissing pointless negative critiques, and learning from the constructive critique.
  5. 5
    Be honest and open. What have you got to hide? We're all imperfect, growing, learning human beings. If you feel ashamed or insecure about any aspect of yourself — and you feel that you have to hide those parts of you, whether physically or emotionally — then you have to come to terms with that and learn to convert your so-called flaws into individualistic quirks or simply as basic, down-to-earth acknowledgments of your own imperfections. Be honest with yourself, but don't beat yourself up; apply this philosophy to others, as well. There is a difference between being critical and being honest; learn to watch the way you say things to yourself and others when being honest.

    • Try the tactic of owning up to your imperfections mid-argument with someone. You will often discover that suddenly you've removed the very reason for stubbornly holding the line of argument, which is often about preserving face and not giving in. The moment you say, "Yeah, look I get really irritable when the room's in a mess too. And I acknowledge that I shouldn't leave my clothes in a pile on the floor and yet, I do it because that's a lazy part of myself I'm still trying to train out of the habit. I'm sorry. I know I could do better, and I will try.", you suddenly infuse an argument with genuine self-honesty that disarms the entire point of the argument, which in this case is messy habits but could apply to anything about your own behavior.
  6. 6
    RelaxStop worrying about the worst that could happen, especially in social situations. So what if you fall flat on your face? Or get spinach stuck in your teeth? Or accidentally head butt your date when leaning in for a kiss? Learn to laugh at yourself both when it happens and afterward. Turn it into a funny story that you can share with others. It lets them know that you're not perfect and makes you feel more at ease, too. It's also an attractive quality for someone to be able to laugh at themselves and not take themselves too seriously!

  7. 7
    Treat yourself as you'd treat your own best friend. You value your friends and those close to you; well, who is closer to you than you are? Give yourself the same kind, thoughtful, and respectful treatment that you give to other people you care about. If you had to hang out with yourself for a day, what is the most fun/enjoyable/fulfilled/calm/contented type of person you could be, while still being yourself? What is the best version of you? Believe in this idea and use that as your starting point. Love and accept yourself as you are now, just as you do for your close ones.

    • Be responsible for yourself and for boosting your self-esteem. If others aren't telling you you're great, don't let it get to you. Instead, tell yourself you're special, wonderful, and worthwhile. When you believe these things about yourself, others will recognize that glow of self-confidence and begin confirming your self-affirmations in no time!
  8. 8
    Develop and express your individuality. Whether it's your sense of style, or even your manner of speaking, if your preferred way of doing something strays from the mainstream and produces positive outcomes, then be proud of it. Be a character, not a type. Learn to communicate well - the better you can express yourself, the easier it is for the people who like you as you are to find you and the ones who don't to just steer clear.

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    Stop comparing yourself to others. If you're always striving to be someone you're not already, you'll never be a happy person. This comes about through comparing yourself to others and finding yourself wanting in certain ways. This is a slippery slope to tread, though. You can always see the appearances others wish to portray publicly but you won't ever see what's really going on behind their façades in their apparently perfect world. By comparing yourself to others, you give their image-portrayal way too much power and reduce your own worth based on a mirage. It's a useless activity that only brings harm. Instead, value the person you are, love your personality, and embrace your flaws; we all have them, and as explained earlier, being honest is better than running from them.

    • Avoid being unfair to yourself. Sometimes comparison causes us to compare apples with pears. We'd like to be a top movie producer in Hollywood when we're a lowly, aspiring scriptwriter. To see that top producer's lifestyle and find yourself wanting as a result is an unfair comparison – that person has years of experience and hobnobbing behind them, while you're just starting out, testing the waters with writing skills that may one day prove to be exceptional. Be realistic in your comparisons and only look to other people as inspiration and as sources of motivation, not as a means to belittling yourself.
    • Never stop looking for your own strengths. Over time, these may change and thus, so may your definition of yourself, but never let up in focusing and refocusing on them. They more than adequately balance out your flaws and are the principal reason for not comparing yourself to others.
    • Comparison leads to resentment. A person filled with resentment cannot focus on the mantra of "be yourself" because they are too busy hankering after someone else!
    • Comparison leads also to criticism of others. A life filled with criticizing others stems from low self-esteem and a need to pull others off their perches that you've placed them on. That's both a way to lose friends and respect, and it's also a way of never being yourself because you're envy-struck and spending too much time on admiring others for their characteristics and not on yourself.
  10. 10
    Follow your own style. The common thing a lot of people do is copy others' actions because it seems like the better route to fit in, but really, shouldn't you stand out? Standing out is very hard, yes, but you need to try avoid assuming other people's perspectives of you, even if it's not something you would normally do; that's what being yourself is all about. Maybe you like to sit outside on the deck under an umbrella in the middle of the rain, maybe you have different ideas of things, rather than other people, maybe you likestrawberry cake instead of the common chocolate cake, whatever you are, accept it. Being different is absolutely beautiful and it attracts people to you. Don't let people change you!

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    Accept that some days you're the pigeon, and that some days you are the statue. People might raise eyebrows and even make fun, but as long as you can shrug and say "Hey, that's just me" and leave it at that, people will ultimately respect you for it, and you'll respect yourself. Yes, sometimes it will hurt when you're teased. Just learn to ignore it.

Lirik Lagu A Pink MYMY

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My My - A Pink


MY MY MY You're MY
MY MY MY You're MY

[Bomi]
Naega nege motaetdeon mal apeseomyeon tteollyeotdeon maeum
Nan nega neomuna johaseo geurae

[Naeun]
Tto haru jongil ne saenggangman han du beoni anin sigan
Neoneun moreul geoya o~ jeongmal

[Eunji]
Na jigeum neomuna tteollyeowaseo mareul motae
Ireon gibun! (MY MY) baro jigeum! (MY MY)
Mak tteollineun maeum eotteoke hae

Naega gippeul ttaena seulpeul ttaena nan neol bureugo sipeo
MY MY MY You're MY neon hangsang nae maeumsoge
Byeonchi malgo geu jarie ttak!
[Eunji]
Geogi isseojumyeon dwae~
Ireoke neol saranghae

MY MY MY You're MY
MY MY MY You're MY

[Chorong]
Neoreul cheoeum boatdeon nal nuni cheoeum naeryeotdeon nal
Sae hayan nuncheoreom neomuna tteollyeowa

[Hayoung]
Uyeonhi neol majuchilkka saenggangman haedo tteollineun
Nae maeumeul eotteoke halkka

[Namjoo]
Nan jeongmal sarangi eotteon geonji moreugesseo
Ireon gibun (MY MY) baro jigeum (MY MY)
Cheoeum neukkineun maeum eotteoke hae

Naega gippeul ttaena seulpeul ttaena nan neol bureugo sipeo
MY MY MY You're MY neon hangsang nae maeumsoge
Byeonchi malgo geu jarie ttak!
[Eunji]
Geogi isseojumyeon dwae~
Ireoke neol saranghae

MY MY MY You're MY
MY MY MY You're MY

[Yookyung] Hoksi ne apeseo nae maeum deulkyeobeorim eotteoke hae
[Bomi] Neol bomyeon nae maeumi seolle
[Chorong] Hangeoreumssik gallae
[Eunji] Jigeum baro nae maeum boyeojullae
Oh Oh Baby

[Yookyung]
Dear boy, I fell in love on a snowy day.
I will be yours forever as long as
You'll be mine.

Naega gippeul ttaena seulpeul ttaena nan neol bureugo sipeo ([Eunji] Oh~)
MY MY MY You're MY neon hangsang nae maeumsoge ([Eunji] neon hangsang nae maeumsoge)
Byeonchi malgo geu jarie ttak!
[Eunji]
Geogi isseojumyeon dwae~
Ireoke neol saranghae~

MY MY MY You're MY
MY MY MY You're MY

Lirik Lagu “Shock” B2ST

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Lirik Lagu “Shock” B2ST

Shock
By B2ST
 

(YoSeob) Every day I just can’t control… Every night the loneliness, my love…
(yeeeeah So beast…. in the cube)

(JunHyung) Can’t breathe, like freeze, nae mom-i gud-eoga (wae! wae!)
Hey dear, stay here nae nun-i meol-eoga (wae! wae!)
No way losing my way neon wae, meol-eo jigiman hae
apeugi silh-eo nan gip-eoman gan ma-eum-eun eotteoghana..

(DooJoon) nan amu maldo deullijiga anhneunde…
nan amugeosdo boijiga anhneunde….
(DongWoon) Oh niga naleul tteonan geunalbuteo,
(DooJoon) geu mueos hana hal sueobsneun nainde…

(Cuz I’ll be there)
(HyunSeung) modu meomchwoss-eo, modu kkeutnass-eo, nae modeun ge jiwojyeoga…
(Cuz I’ll be there)
(GiKwang) nun-eul gam-ado, nae gieog sog-eseo, ni moseub-i heulyeo jineunde~

Every day I shock (shock), Every night I shock (shock)
(YoSeob) I’m sorry jebal naege dasi dol-awa jullae…
Every day I shock (shock), Every night I shock (shock)
(YoSeob) nan neo ttaemun-e amugeosdo hal su eobsneunde oooh
Come to me oh, oh, oh, tonight so so crazy,
Come back, back, back, to me (I’m waiting (for) you you)
Oh, oh, oh, tonight so so crazy
(YoSeob) jeoldaelo kkaeeonal su eobs-eul, geos gat-a ma shock

(JunHyung) Hey ya, wake up jeongsinchalyeo bomyeon neoneun gyeot-e eobs-eo
Oh lalalalalala, michin salamcheoleom usgoiss-eo
geulium-i pado chineun bada-e maeil heoujeogdae
nan moshae (forget you) pyeongsaeng ileohge…

(DongWoon) ileol geomyeon neoleul jab-ass-eul tende…
jug-eulmankeum himdeulji anh-eul tende…
(DooJoon) Oh dasi neoleul jab-a bolyeohaedo,
(DongWoon) sonkkeut hana umjig-il su eobsneunde…

(Cuz I’ll be there)
(GiKwang) sum-i gappawa, gaseum-i apa, ni saeng-gag-eulhamyeon halsulog
(Cuz I’ll be there)
(HyunSeung) hancham dong-an-eul, meonghani anj-a, amugeosdo hal suga eobs-eo…

Every day I shock (shock), Every night I shock (shock)
(YoSeob) I’m sorry jebal naege dasi dol-awa jullae
Every day I shock (shock), Every night I shock (shock)
(YoSeob) nan neo ttaemun-e amugeosdo hal su eobsneunde ooooh
Come to me oh, oh, oh, tonight so so crazy
Come back, back, back, to me (I’m waiting (for) you you)
Oh, oh, oh, tonight so so crazy
(YoSeob) jeoldaelo kkaeeonal su eobs-eul, geos gat-a ma shock

(JunHyung) maeil bam kkum-e (kkum-e) neoui mogsoli (soli) deullijil anh-a (anh-a) neon eodie…
(HyunSeung) niga nal tteonaseo haengboghae, handamyeon, geuleomyeon naega nunmul cham-a bolgeeee……….

Every day I shock (shock), Every night I shock (shock)
(YoSeob) I’m sorry jebal naege dasi dol-awa jullae
Every day I shock (shock), Every night I shock (shock)
(YoSeob) nan neo ttaemun-e amugeosdo hal su eobsneunde oh
Come to me oh, oh, oh, tonight so so crazy
Come back, back, back, to me (I’m waiting (for) you you)
Oh, oh, oh, tonight so so crazy
(YoSeob) jeoldaelo kkaeeonal su eobs-eul geos gat-a ma shock !!
^_________________________________^

Lirik Lagu “Fiction” B2ST

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Lirik Lagu “Fiction” B2ST

Fiction
By B2ST
 


[DooJoon] ajik nan neol, itji mothago, modeun geol da, mitji mothago,
ireohke neol bonaeji mothago oneuldo,

[JunHyung] dashi mandeuleo bolke uri iyagi kkeut naji anhge aju ginagin,
salgacheul pago seumyeodeuneun sangshilgameun jamshi mudeodulke,
saero sseo naeryeoga shijakeun haengbokhage, utgo ittneun neowa na naega nal,
ddeonaji mothage baekyeongeun chulguga eobtneun jobeun bang an

[GiKwang] amureohji anhge nege kiseu hago,
dalkomhan neoui gyeoteul ddeonagajil mothae,
urin kkeut iraneun geon eobseo..

reff :
[YoSeob] ireohke nan ddo (Fiction in Fiction) itji mothago (Fiction in Fiction)
[HyunSeung] nae gaseum sok-e, kkeut naji anheul, iyagil sseugo isseo,

[YoSeob] neol butjabeulge (Fiction in Fiction) nohji anheulge, oh (Fiction in Fiction in Fiction)
kkeut naji anheun neowa, naui iyagi sogeseo… oneuldo in Fiction..

[GiKwang] jigeum yeogin haengbokhan iyagildeul bakke eobseo,
neomu haengbokhan, uri dulman-ui iyagi ga ireohke, (hyeonsilgwaneun dareuge) sseo isseo,
jeomjeom chaeweojigo isseo..

[HyunSeung] neoneun naegero dallyeowaseo anhgigo,
pum anh-e angin neoreul naneun jeoldae nohji mothae,
urin kkeut-iraneun geon eobseo..

reff :
[YoSeob] ireohke nan ddo (Fiction in Fiction) kkeunhji mothago (Fiction in Fiction)
[DongWoon] nae gaseum sog-e, kkeut naji anheul, iyagil sseugo isseo,

[YoSeob] neol butjabeulge (Fiction in Fiction) nohji anheulge, oh (Fiction in Fiction in Fiction)
[YoSeob] kkeut naji anheun neowa, naui iyagi sogeseo.. oneuldo in Fiction..

[YoSeob] dashi hanbeon deo malhajiman..
jigeum neoneun, nae yeop-e ittdago, geureohke mitgo isseo nan..

(hajiman Fiction..)
[JunHyung] nan mokjeokeul irheobeorin jakga i soseolui kkeuteun eotteohke mamuri ([DongWoon] namanui Fiction) jieoya hae,
Saranghae, saranghae, saranghae, saranghae, saranghae i se geuljaman ([DongWoon] modu da Fiction) sseo naeryeoga,
modyeojin pen nunmullo eollukjin nalkeun joh-i wiro ([DongWoon] modu da Fiction)
haengbokhal sudo seulpeul sudo eobseo, i iyagi neun,

[DooJoon] jigeum nan, neomunado haengbokhan, saenggak-e iyagireul sseujiman,
modeun ge, baramil bbunirago, yeojeonhi,

nan haengobkhan geol (Fiction in Fiction in Fiction)
uri hamkke-in geol (Fiction in Fiction in Fiction)
ije shijak-in geol (Fiction in Fiction in Fiction)
kkeuteun eobtneun geol (Fiction in Fiction in Fiction)
^___________________________^

How To Be Yourself


How to Be Yourself


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Be Yourself
Be yourself is a sentence that is quite possibly the most commonly used phrase in the history of advice: Be yourself. It's such a vague adage. What do they really mean when they tell you to be yourself? And is it really as easy as it sounds?

EditSteps

  1. 1
    Find yourself and define yourself on your terms. Oscar Wilde once said with his usual wit: Be yourself; everyone else is already taken. As humorous as this might seem, it's a basic summation of the truth. Yet, you can't be yourself if you don't know, understand, andaccept yourself first. It should be your primary goal to find this out. Find the time to dwell upon what you value and take time to consider what makes up the essence of who you are. As part of this, contemplate your life and choices. Try to think about what kinds of things you would or wouldn't like to do, and act accordingly; finding out through trial and error helps more than you might think it does. You can even take personality tests, but be careful to only take what you want from them so that you do not let such tests define you. Instead, ensure that the defining you do is based on your own terms and is something you feel absolutely comfortable with. You may feel self-conscious, but over time if you are around the right type of people for you, they will accept you for who you are.And love and start to look at the real you.

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  2. 2
  3. 3
    In finding your values, don't be surprised if some of them seem to conflict.
     In finding your values, don't be surprised if some of them seem to conflict.
    In finding your values, don't be surprised if some of them seem to conflict.
     In finding your values, don't be surprised if some of them seem to conflict.
    #*In finding your values, don't be surprised if some of them seem to conflict. This is a natural result of taking on broad values from a variety of sources, including culture, religion, mentors, inspiring people, educational sources, etc. What does matter is that you continue working through these conflicts to resolve what values feel most true to yourself.
  4. 4
    Avoid fixating on the past and not letting yourself grow.
     Avoid fixating on the past and not letting yourself grow.
    Avoid fixating on the past and not letting yourself grow. One of the most unhealthy approaches to being oneself is to make a decision that who you are is defined by a moment or period of time, after which you spend the rest of your life trying to still be that person from the past rather than someone who is still you but grows with the passing of each season and decade. Allow yourself this space to grow, to improve, to become wiser. And allow yourself to forgive past errors and past behaviors you're not so proud of. Work on accepting mistakes and choices you've made; they're done and in the past. You had your reasons for them and the decision made sense at the time, so instead of harnessing yourself to past mistakes, allow yourself to learn their lessons and continue to grow.



    what other people say? As Eleanor Roosevelt said once, "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent" and what matters most is that you listen to your own inner confidence and if it's missing, that you start developing it!

    • Does this mean no one's opinion in life matters? No. It hurts if you're socially rejected. If you're forced into a situation where you must spend most or all of your time among people who can't stand you for reasons of their own, it's dangerous to internalize their negative ideas of who you are. What you can do is exercise some choice in whose opinions you value more than others. It's much healthier to pay attention to people who genuinely mean you well and who agree with you about what you want to do with your life.
    • Be careful though, an individual can mean you well, but it may be only on their own terms. This could steer you down the wrong path, and with all the passion of true consideration for your well being.
    • Don't trivialize it if you face negative social pressure or bullying. It's easier to withstand it if you are aware of it as pressure and build healthy defenses. Building up a circle of trusted friends and people who share your views and beliefs in life is a good way to help reduce the impact of hostile people. You can tell yourself their opinions don't matter, and they shouldn't, but that's a lot easier when there are others who agree with you and stand by you. If you are alone that is fine, just think about how the people in your life who care about you. Then compare them to whoever the bully is; suddenly you can realize that their opinion of you, your family or your lifestyle, is worthless. We inherently care about the opinions of those we respect and look up to. This works both ways; if someone has no respect for you, then what they say about you is just empty words coming from someone who is one step above being a total stranger.
    • Learn the difference between intimidating, sarcastic, conniving, or thoughtless comments from others and constructive criticism which is well intended. It will focus on real faults that you don't know about, and could do with remedying. In the latter case, people such as parents, mentors, teachers, coaches, etc., might well be telling you things that you need to digest and mull over at your own pace, to make self-improvements for the better. The difference is that their critique of you is intended to be helpful. They care about you and are interested in how you grow as a person, and are respectful. Learn how to spot the difference and you will live well, dismissing pointless negative critiques, and learning from the constructive critique.
  5. 5
    Be honest and open. What have you got to hide? We're all imperfect, growing, learning human beings. If you feel ashamed or insecure about any aspect of yourself — and you feel that you have to hide those parts of you, whether physically or emotionally — then you have to come to terms with that and learn to convert your so-called flaws into individualistic quirks or simply as basic, down-to-earth acknowledgments of your own imperfections. Be honest with yourself, but don't beat yourself up; apply this philosophy to others, as well. There is a difference between being critical and being honest; learn to watch the way you say things to yourself and others when being honest.

    • Try the tactic of owning up to your imperfections mid-argument with someone. You will often discover that suddenly you've removed the very reason for stubbornly holding the line of argument, which is often about preserving face and not giving in. The moment you say, "Yeah, look I get really irritable when the room's in a mess too. And I acknowledge that I shouldn't leave my clothes in a pile on the floor and yet, I do it because that's a lazy part of myself I'm still trying to train out of the habit. I'm sorry. I know I could do better, and I will try.", you suddenly infuse an argument with genuine self-honesty that disarms the entire point of the argument, which in this case is messy habits but could apply to anything about your own behavior.
  6. 6
    RelaxStop worrying about the worst that could happen, especially in social situations. So what if you fall flat on your face? Or get spinach stuck in your teeth? Or accidentally head butt your date when leaning in for a kiss? Learn to laugh at yourself both when it happens and afterward. Turn it into a funny story that you can share with others. It lets them know that you're not perfect and makes you feel more at ease, too. It's also an attractive quality for someone to be able to laugh at themselves and not take themselves too seriously!

  7. 7
    Treat yourself as you'd treat your own best friend. You value your friends and those close to you; well, who is closer to you than you are? Give yourself the same kind, thoughtful, and respectful treatment that you give to other people you care about. If you had to hang out with yourself for a day, what is the most fun/enjoyable/fulfilled/calm/contented type of person you could be, while still being yourself? What is the best version of you? Believe in this idea and use that as your starting point. Love and accept yourself as you are now, just as you do for your close ones.

    • Be responsible for yourself and for boosting your self-esteem. If others aren't telling you you're great, don't let it get to you. Instead, tell yourself you're special, wonderful, and worthwhile. When you believe these things about yourself, others will recognize that glow of self-confidence and begin confirming your self-affirmations in no time!
  8. 8
    Develop and express your individuality. Whether it's your sense of style, or even your manner of speaking, if your preferred way of doing something strays from the mainstream and produces positive outcomes, then be proud of it. Be a character, not a type. Learn to communicate well - the better you can express yourself, the easier it is for the people who like you as you are to find you and the ones who don't to just steer clear.

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    Stop comparing yourself to others. If you're always striving to be someone you're not already, you'll never be a happy person. This comes about through comparing yourself to others and finding yourself wanting in certain ways. This is a slippery slope to tread, though. You can always see the appearances others wish to portray publicly but you won't ever see what's really going on behind their façades in their apparently perfect world. By comparing yourself to others, you give their image-portrayal way too much power and reduce your own worth based on a mirage. It's a useless activity that only brings harm. Instead, value the person you are, love your personality, and embrace your flaws; we all have them, and as explained earlier, being honest is better than running from them.

    • Avoid being unfair to yourself. Sometimes comparison causes us to compare apples with pears. We'd like to be a top movie producer in Hollywood when we're a lowly, aspiring scriptwriter. To see that top producer's lifestyle and find yourself wanting as a result is an unfair comparison – that person has years of experience and hobnobbing behind them, while you're just starting out, testing the waters with writing skills that may one day prove to be exceptional. Be realistic in your comparisons and only look to other people as inspiration and as sources of motivation, not as a means to belittling yourself.
    • Never stop looking for your own strengths. Over time, these may change and thus, so may your definition of yourself, but never let up in focusing and refocusing on them. They more than adequately balance out your flaws and are the principal reason for not comparing yourself to others.
    • Comparison leads to resentment. A person filled with resentment cannot focus on the mantra of "be yourself" because they are too busy hankering after someone else!
    • Comparison leads also to criticism of others. A life filled with criticizing others stems from low self-esteem and a need to pull others off their perches that you've placed them on. That's both a way to lose friends and respect, and it's also a way of never being yourself because you're envy-struck and spending too much time on admiring others for their characteristics and not on yourself.
  10. 10
    Follow your own style. The common thing a lot of people do is copy others' actions because it seems like the better route to fit in, but really, shouldn't you stand out? Standing out is very hard, yes, but you need to try avoid assuming other people's perspectives of you, even if it's not something you would normally do; that's what being yourself is all about. Maybe you like to sit outside on the deck under an umbrella in the middle of the rain, maybe you have different ideas of things, rather than other people, maybe you likestrawberry cake instead of the common chocolate cake, whatever you are, accept it. Being different is absolutely beautiful and it attracts people to you. Don't let people change you!

  11. 11
    Accept that some days you're the pigeon, and that some days you are the statue. People might raise eyebrows and even make fun, but as long as you can shrug and say "Hey, that's just me" and leave it at that, people will ultimately respect you for it, and you'll respect yourself. Yes, sometimes it will hurt when you're teased. Just learn to ignore it.

Lirik Lagu A Pink MYMY


My My - A Pink


MY MY MY You're MY
MY MY MY You're MY

[Bomi]
Naega nege motaetdeon mal apeseomyeon tteollyeotdeon maeum
Nan nega neomuna johaseo geurae

[Naeun]
Tto haru jongil ne saenggangman han du beoni anin sigan
Neoneun moreul geoya o~ jeongmal

[Eunji]
Na jigeum neomuna tteollyeowaseo mareul motae
Ireon gibun! (MY MY) baro jigeum! (MY MY)
Mak tteollineun maeum eotteoke hae

Naega gippeul ttaena seulpeul ttaena nan neol bureugo sipeo
MY MY MY You're MY neon hangsang nae maeumsoge
Byeonchi malgo geu jarie ttak!
[Eunji]
Geogi isseojumyeon dwae~
Ireoke neol saranghae

MY MY MY You're MY
MY MY MY You're MY

[Chorong]
Neoreul cheoeum boatdeon nal nuni cheoeum naeryeotdeon nal
Sae hayan nuncheoreom neomuna tteollyeowa

[Hayoung]
Uyeonhi neol majuchilkka saenggangman haedo tteollineun
Nae maeumeul eotteoke halkka

[Namjoo]
Nan jeongmal sarangi eotteon geonji moreugesseo
Ireon gibun (MY MY) baro jigeum (MY MY)
Cheoeum neukkineun maeum eotteoke hae

Naega gippeul ttaena seulpeul ttaena nan neol bureugo sipeo
MY MY MY You're MY neon hangsang nae maeumsoge
Byeonchi malgo geu jarie ttak!
[Eunji]
Geogi isseojumyeon dwae~
Ireoke neol saranghae

MY MY MY You're MY
MY MY MY You're MY

[Yookyung] Hoksi ne apeseo nae maeum deulkyeobeorim eotteoke hae
[Bomi] Neol bomyeon nae maeumi seolle
[Chorong] Hangeoreumssik gallae
[Eunji] Jigeum baro nae maeum boyeojullae
Oh Oh Baby

[Yookyung]
Dear boy, I fell in love on a snowy day.
I will be yours forever as long as
You'll be mine.

Naega gippeul ttaena seulpeul ttaena nan neol bureugo sipeo ([Eunji] Oh~)
MY MY MY You're MY neon hangsang nae maeumsoge ([Eunji] neon hangsang nae maeumsoge)
Byeonchi malgo geu jarie ttak!
[Eunji]
Geogi isseojumyeon dwae~
Ireoke neol saranghae~

MY MY MY You're MY
MY MY MY You're MY

Lirik Lagu “Shock” B2ST


Lirik Lagu “Shock” B2ST

Shock
By B2ST
 

(YoSeob) Every day I just can’t control… Every night the loneliness, my love…
(yeeeeah So beast…. in the cube)

(JunHyung) Can’t breathe, like freeze, nae mom-i gud-eoga (wae! wae!)
Hey dear, stay here nae nun-i meol-eoga (wae! wae!)
No way losing my way neon wae, meol-eo jigiman hae
apeugi silh-eo nan gip-eoman gan ma-eum-eun eotteoghana..

(DooJoon) nan amu maldo deullijiga anhneunde…
nan amugeosdo boijiga anhneunde….
(DongWoon) Oh niga naleul tteonan geunalbuteo,
(DooJoon) geu mueos hana hal sueobsneun nainde…

(Cuz I’ll be there)
(HyunSeung) modu meomchwoss-eo, modu kkeutnass-eo, nae modeun ge jiwojyeoga…
(Cuz I’ll be there)
(GiKwang) nun-eul gam-ado, nae gieog sog-eseo, ni moseub-i heulyeo jineunde~

Every day I shock (shock), Every night I shock (shock)
(YoSeob) I’m sorry jebal naege dasi dol-awa jullae…
Every day I shock (shock), Every night I shock (shock)
(YoSeob) nan neo ttaemun-e amugeosdo hal su eobsneunde oooh
Come to me oh, oh, oh, tonight so so crazy,
Come back, back, back, to me (I’m waiting (for) you you)
Oh, oh, oh, tonight so so crazy
(YoSeob) jeoldaelo kkaeeonal su eobs-eul, geos gat-a ma shock

(JunHyung) Hey ya, wake up jeongsinchalyeo bomyeon neoneun gyeot-e eobs-eo
Oh lalalalalala, michin salamcheoleom usgoiss-eo
geulium-i pado chineun bada-e maeil heoujeogdae
nan moshae (forget you) pyeongsaeng ileohge…

(DongWoon) ileol geomyeon neoleul jab-ass-eul tende…
jug-eulmankeum himdeulji anh-eul tende…
(DooJoon) Oh dasi neoleul jab-a bolyeohaedo,
(DongWoon) sonkkeut hana umjig-il su eobsneunde…

(Cuz I’ll be there)
(GiKwang) sum-i gappawa, gaseum-i apa, ni saeng-gag-eulhamyeon halsulog
(Cuz I’ll be there)
(HyunSeung) hancham dong-an-eul, meonghani anj-a, amugeosdo hal suga eobs-eo…

Every day I shock (shock), Every night I shock (shock)
(YoSeob) I’m sorry jebal naege dasi dol-awa jullae
Every day I shock (shock), Every night I shock (shock)
(YoSeob) nan neo ttaemun-e amugeosdo hal su eobsneunde ooooh
Come to me oh, oh, oh, tonight so so crazy
Come back, back, back, to me (I’m waiting (for) you you)
Oh, oh, oh, tonight so so crazy
(YoSeob) jeoldaelo kkaeeonal su eobs-eul, geos gat-a ma shock

(JunHyung) maeil bam kkum-e (kkum-e) neoui mogsoli (soli) deullijil anh-a (anh-a) neon eodie…
(HyunSeung) niga nal tteonaseo haengboghae, handamyeon, geuleomyeon naega nunmul cham-a bolgeeee……….

Every day I shock (shock), Every night I shock (shock)
(YoSeob) I’m sorry jebal naege dasi dol-awa jullae
Every day I shock (shock), Every night I shock (shock)
(YoSeob) nan neo ttaemun-e amugeosdo hal su eobsneunde oh
Come to me oh, oh, oh, tonight so so crazy
Come back, back, back, to me (I’m waiting (for) you you)
Oh, oh, oh, tonight so so crazy
(YoSeob) jeoldaelo kkaeeonal su eobs-eul geos gat-a ma shock !!
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Lirik Lagu “Fiction” B2ST

Lirik Lagu “Fiction” B2ST

Fiction
By B2ST
 


[DooJoon] ajik nan neol, itji mothago, modeun geol da, mitji mothago,
ireohke neol bonaeji mothago oneuldo,

[JunHyung] dashi mandeuleo bolke uri iyagi kkeut naji anhge aju ginagin,
salgacheul pago seumyeodeuneun sangshilgameun jamshi mudeodulke,
saero sseo naeryeoga shijakeun haengbokhage, utgo ittneun neowa na naega nal,
ddeonaji mothage baekyeongeun chulguga eobtneun jobeun bang an

[GiKwang] amureohji anhge nege kiseu hago,
dalkomhan neoui gyeoteul ddeonagajil mothae,
urin kkeut iraneun geon eobseo..

reff :
[YoSeob] ireohke nan ddo (Fiction in Fiction) itji mothago (Fiction in Fiction)
[HyunSeung] nae gaseum sok-e, kkeut naji anheul, iyagil sseugo isseo,

[YoSeob] neol butjabeulge (Fiction in Fiction) nohji anheulge, oh (Fiction in Fiction in Fiction)
kkeut naji anheun neowa, naui iyagi sogeseo… oneuldo in Fiction..

[GiKwang] jigeum yeogin haengbokhan iyagildeul bakke eobseo,
neomu haengbokhan, uri dulman-ui iyagi ga ireohke, (hyeonsilgwaneun dareuge) sseo isseo,
jeomjeom chaeweojigo isseo..

[HyunSeung] neoneun naegero dallyeowaseo anhgigo,
pum anh-e angin neoreul naneun jeoldae nohji mothae,
urin kkeut-iraneun geon eobseo..

reff :
[YoSeob] ireohke nan ddo (Fiction in Fiction) kkeunhji mothago (Fiction in Fiction)
[DongWoon] nae gaseum sog-e, kkeut naji anheul, iyagil sseugo isseo,

[YoSeob] neol butjabeulge (Fiction in Fiction) nohji anheulge, oh (Fiction in Fiction in Fiction)
[YoSeob] kkeut naji anheun neowa, naui iyagi sogeseo.. oneuldo in Fiction..

[YoSeob] dashi hanbeon deo malhajiman..
jigeum neoneun, nae yeop-e ittdago, geureohke mitgo isseo nan..

(hajiman Fiction..)
[JunHyung] nan mokjeokeul irheobeorin jakga i soseolui kkeuteun eotteohke mamuri ([DongWoon] namanui Fiction) jieoya hae,
Saranghae, saranghae, saranghae, saranghae, saranghae i se geuljaman ([DongWoon] modu da Fiction) sseo naeryeoga,
modyeojin pen nunmullo eollukjin nalkeun joh-i wiro ([DongWoon] modu da Fiction)
haengbokhal sudo seulpeul sudo eobseo, i iyagi neun,

[DooJoon] jigeum nan, neomunado haengbokhan, saenggak-e iyagireul sseujiman,
modeun ge, baramil bbunirago, yeojeonhi,

nan haengobkhan geol (Fiction in Fiction in Fiction)
uri hamkke-in geol (Fiction in Fiction in Fiction)
ije shijak-in geol (Fiction in Fiction in Fiction)
kkeuteun eobtneun geol (Fiction in Fiction in Fiction)
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